Aimee Bender Quotes, Daughter Quotes, Father Quotes

It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we'd read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.

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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.

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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.

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I like birthday cake. It's so symbolic. It's a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just 'Happy birthday!' because it's this emblem of childhood and a happy day.

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...a Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.

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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn't appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.

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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.

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The writing I tend to think of as 'good' is good because it's mysterious.

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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.

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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.

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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.

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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.

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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.

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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son; she is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.

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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.

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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother's palm and fingertips, he was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I'd always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph's part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.

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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.

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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.

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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.

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I'm obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s. It's such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.

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