Aimee Bender Quotes, Mother Quotes, Air Quotes

That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother's palm and fingertips, he was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I'd always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph's part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Mother Quotes , Air Quotes

I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Space Quotes , Lines Quotes

When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Light Quotes , Self Quotes

We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Hands Quotes , World Quotes

The writing I tend to think of as 'good' is good because it's mysterious.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Writing Quotes , Thinking Quotes

I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Ideas Quotes , Mind Quotes

Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows. As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Running Quotes , Blow Quotes

I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q...

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Circles Quotes , Tails Quotes

I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Tears Quotes , Groups Quotes

I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Echoes Quotes

You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Nuts Quotes , Trying Quotes

I want to be violated by insight.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Want Quotes

While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave, the most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Moving Quotes , Cutting Quotes

You can ruin anything if you focus at it.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Focus Quotes , Ruins Quotes

Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children... It was a fleeting statement, one I didn't think she'd hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us. That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Mother Quotes , Children Quotes

That's the thing with handmade items. They still have the person's mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone. This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Burgers Quotes , Littles Quotes

It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Moments Quotes , Rescue Quotes

I give boring people something to discuss over corn.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , People Quotes , Giving Quotes

It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It's the mathematical logic of being alive. If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Life Quotes , Sadness Quotes

It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.

6 years ago

Message Copied

Tags : Aimee Bender Quotes , Writing Quotes , Pages Quotes